 
by Henry Makow Ph.D. While in Toronto last week, I saw a beautiful young
East Indian woman spend eight hours hauling heavy boxes and furniture.
She was moving her brother into a university residence.
"Doesn't your brother have any male friends who could help him?" I asked her.
"Oh, I'm a great believer in equality," she replied cheerfully as she hoisted a book shelf.
Equality! What a boon for women! In the bad old days, women wouldn't be allowed to do hard physical labor like this.
This is a bright girl in a Pre-Med program yet she was so easily duped
to deny her femininity. They told her it was "socially constructed" and
she had to be "independent." Now she is ready to repress her biological
instincts and stunt her natural development.
Women were intended to carry children, not pianos. Equal does not mean
identical. We all have an equal right to dignity and fulfillment
but our path is not the same. Men are fulfilled by supporting and
leading a family. Women are fulfilled by devotion to husband and family
and by experiencing their love. (Of course, women can have careers but
they should be secondary to family.)
The East Indian girl's charm and beauty would inspire many a man to
nest. But with all the study and heavy lifting, her bloom will fade and
she'll gain weight. By the time she graduates, she won't turn heads
any longer.
MALE FRUSTRATION
I hear from men who say most women still have their feminine instincts
but can't overcome societal and family pressure. Here is an anguished
cry from Brian, a 29-year old Californian: "Ya
can't... understand the damned frustration I feel about the degradation
of the natural roles of man and woman today. Some days i'm made to feel
like a caveman that refuses to evolve.
"I've never had a problem getting attention from the opposite sex. I
however have never found a real woman who would be one. My last was a
26-year-old Accounting Major. 2 years we were together. I knew she was
feminist, but who the hell isn't out here. It wasn't, however, until I
met her parents that I saw what I believed to be the root of it all. It
was obvious who ran the house in her family, her mother. Her father was
just a goofy big kid. In her home she was encouraged to go to school
and be independent if verbally then by example. I could tell that there
was no way in hell she could ever be appreciated [by her parents,
friends] as just a mere homemaker to her family.
"She however inside was a real woman. I treated her like a man should.
I was in control. As I must be in any of my relationships. She loved me
for it. I saw how she looked into my eyes, and when she was with me she
knew who she wanted to be. I think it was finally pressure from her
family and friends that led to the end of the relationship. ...I
suppose what I'm saying is most of the women I meet do want what I'm
trying to give them. They just don't know how to accept it either in
them self or in front of the world."
A lot of men can identify with Brian. They can save valuable time by
checking out the family power structure in advance and passing over
women who do not have good relationships with strong fathers.
MUTANTS?
Other women are so sexually confused, can they be called "women" any longer? They don't know how to love.
I sat down with Greg, a tall, handsome, fit, smart, successful Toronto
contractor and custom builder. He is 40 and a dream catch for the "oops
I forgot to have children" set.
He just ended a three-year relationship with a career woman in her late 30's due to issues of power and control.
"She wanted to wear the pants and treat me like a servant," he said.
"She was always calculating who did what for whom, and what was 'fair
and equitable.'"
Now you'd think a woman nearing the end of her fertility would snap up
a man like Greg who wants to put down roots and have a family. You'd
think she'd know how to make him happy. But this woman didn't. For
example, she demanded he nurse her when she was sick but said he was
"on his own" when he was ill.
"As I became more successful, she actually felt threatened. She was
losing control.," said Greg. She talked about having children but her
actions belied her words. Instead of reading about child rearing, she
brought books home about getting the corner office."
Now she and her unmarried friends sit around bashing men and
complaining about the lack of good men. "Half the people in my age
group are single," Greg says. "It's really scary."
Men have been feminized. Greg should not have engaged in a power
struggle. He should have said at the outset, "You can have power or you
can have love. You cannot have both. You can be my right arm or you can
leave."
A woman who really loves a man will accept these terms. (She wants love
not power.)This is how marriage takes place. Of course, he will consult
her. He wants her to be happy. We love the people who love us.
CONCLUSION
In heterosexual marriage, the male wins a woman's trust (i.e. love)
through courtship. In return she gives him the power to love her. This
exchange of power for love is how a man and a woman become one. It is
the psychological key that allows us to grow. Sex is the symbol of this
permanent and exclusive bond.
As I have said, feminism is designed to destabilize society by
undermining heterosexuality and the family unit. Like all aggression,
this perverse assault on gender difference is disguised as an act of
"defence" (of women's and homosexual rights.)
The ultimate goal is a banker-run totalitarian "New World Order." What
we think of as "money" is really central banker "credit." They want to
consolidate their fraudulent monopoly, eventually controlling you with
their "credit" card in your body.
In order to sabotage marriage and family, women have been duped to seek
power and emasculate men. What women really want is power expressed as
male love. They will get it when they are able to believe in a man. Henry Makow is the author of Cruel Hoax: Feminism and the New World Order and A Long Way to go for a Date. He received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto. He welcomes your feedback and ideas at
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